This article is part of a series of articles the thinking patterns common to individuals with disturbed or disordered characters (see “What Were They Thinking?” and “What Were They Thinking - Pt. 2″).  We’ve already discussed Egocentric Thinking.  The next distorted thinking pattern we’ll be talking about is possessive thinking. Disordered characters tend to view those that they have any kind of relationship... 

As I described in my last post (see “What Were They Thinking? - Part 2”), persons with disturbed characters don’t act the way we do largely because they don’t think the way we do.   Stanton Samenow was among the early researchers to catalog the distorted thinking patterns or “errors in thinking” which some of the most severely disturbed characters (those with criminal records) display. Over the years, I’ve adapted and modified... 

One of the central tenets of cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is that there is an inextricable relationship between a person’s core beliefs, the attitudes those beliefs have engendered, and the ways the person’s attitudes prompt him or her to to behave in various situations. Each element of the triad of thinking patterns-attitudes-behaviors generally has a reinforcing effect on the others and contributes greatly to an individual’s... 

In several of my prior posts, I’ve explored the nature of character disturbance in general and outlined the most severely disordered of all characters, most recently the Aggressive Personalities.  Truly understanding such individuals can indeed be quite challenging. But attempting to help them change through therapeutic interventions is even more challenging. These days, when it comes to understanding and dealing with individuals of disturbed... 

  As anyone reading my books, attending my workshops, or viewing my internet blog posts knows, I have made the study of character development and its importance my lifes work for many years.  When I was doing my early research for my upcoming book “Disturbances of Character,” the inextricable relationship between charcter and freedom became all too clear to me.  I came to a deeper understanding of how the erosion of time-honored... 

Covert-Aggressive Personalities are the archetypal wolves in sheep’s clothing that I introduced in my first book, In Sheep’s Clothing [Amazon-US | Amazon-UK]. These individuals are not openly aggressive in their interpersonal style. In fact, they do their best to keep their aggressive intentions and behaviors carefully masked. They can often appear quite charming and amiable, but underneath their civil façade they are just as ruthless... 

I’ve been posting a series of articles on the “aggressive personalities.” This group of individuals is among the most seriously disordered in character of all the various personality types. Despite the fact that official diagnostic literature neither recognizes the inordinate predisposition for aggression as the core problem for such personalities nor recognizes the distinct differences between aggressive personality types, I have... 

This post is the second in a series about some personality types that are the most disordered in character - the aggresssive personalities. In an earlier article, I presented some of the characteristics all the “Aggressive Personalities” share. In my last post, I described the “unbridled aggressive” personality type (see “The Unbridled Aggressive Personality”). This type of aggressive personality is frequently involved in law-breaking... 

In a prior post, I addressed the general characteristics of aggressive personalities.  I also mentioned that there are several aggressive personality subtypes.  Among these perhaps the type most studied and written about has been the type that I prefer to label the “unbridled aggressive.” Historically, unbridled aggressive personalities have been more commonly labeled antisocial. I often hear the term antisocial used inappropriately... 

  Researchers in the areas of personality and character disturbance have long recognized that there is a fairly substantial group of highly disturbed characters at the center of most abusive relationships and who pose the greatest threat to social order.  These are the pathological fighters among us who resist all attempts to socialize them.  There are several different aggressive personality types.  Yet, until very recently the official...